You know what I’ve been thinking about lately? How completely, absurdly, wonderfully lucky I am to have my best friend.
She’s not just my BFF — she’s my soulmate, my other half, my favourite human, and the person I want next to me on every chaotic adventure and every lazy Sunday. She’s been there through heartbreaks, job meltdowns, wardrobe crises, terrible haircuts, and every life-changing moment in between.
So today, I’m putting it all into words — the big reasons, the small reasons, and the downright ridiculous reasons why she’s my ultimate ride-or-die. Here’s my love letter to my best friend: There are 26 reasons why she is truly my soulmate.
1. We can talk for hours — or sit in silence
It doesn’t matter if we’re on the phone for five hours or sitting together on the couch, scrolling through our phones. With her, it’s never awkward. We can talk about anything or nothing, and both are fine.
That’s the kind of connection even the best friendship quotes can’t quite capture.
2. She’s brutally honest (and I love her for it)
She’s the first one to tell me when I need to get over something, when that person is clearly not worth crying over, or when my new top looks like a curtain. She’s my personal truth-teller, and even when it stings, I’m grateful. Sometimes, you need someone who loves you enough to call you out.
3. We have enough inside jokes to confuse an entire room
Honestly, sometimes I think we need subtitles when we talk. Between the nicknames, the made-up words, and the random one-liners that still crack us up, it’s like we’ve created our own language.
People around us are often bewildered, but that’s part of the fun — our friendship is its own little world.
4. We read each other’s minds
He cast a glance across the room. A single eyebrow was raised. There was a slight smirk on his face. Boom — we both know exactly what the other is thinking. Whether we’re at a party or in a meeting, we’ve got a silent communication system that’s pure BFF magic.
5. We get low-key jealous of each other’s other friends
We act cool when one of us hangs out with a new friend, but inside, we’re both thinking, “Yeah, but I’m the original bestie.” And honestly? That’s okay. This bond will never be replaced.
6. We’re financially chaotic together
Between the two of us, budgeting is nearly impossible. Despite experiencing numerous financial setbacks, we consistently manage to enjoy ourselves. What could be more perfect than cheap wine, instant noodles, a playlist, and a spontaneous dance party in the kitchen? Perfection.
It’s not about the money — it’s about the memories.
7. We have a theme song
As soon as that song starts playing, we go into full concert mode, complete with off-key harmonies, dramatic arm waves, and dance moves that are unlikely to be seen again. It’s our anthem, and it makes every moment feel like a celebration.
8. We borrow each other’s things without blinking
Her hoodie? Mine now. My lipstick? She’s already using it. We no longer enquire — it’s a matter of mutual understanding. Our stuff is a shared pool of clothes, snacks, chargers, and random beauty products.
9. My family has basically adopted her
There’s always an extra plate at dinner, a spare bed ready, and a place for her on every family trip. My parents love her like she’s their second daughter, and honestly, I wouldn’t have it any other way.
10. She’s my loudest cheerleader
She hypes me up before every job interview, first date, or big presentation. She’s the first one to scream, “You’ve got this!” and the one texting me memes five minutes later to calm my nerves. She’s my personal cheer squad — and I’m hers.
11. Insults are our love language
“You’re such an idiot.”
“You’re the worst.”
“You absolute disaster.”
Translation: “I love you to bits; please never leave my life.” It’s the kind of banter that only works between best friends — and it’s honestly one of my favourite things about us.
12. We dislike the same people
She’s mad at someone? I’m instantly outraged too. Do I need the details? Nope. That is the nature of our business model. We offer a comprehensive package, and we do not negotiate loyalty.
13. We know each other’s deepest secrets
She’s seen me at my absolute worst — messy, heartbroken, anxious, and overwhelmed — and she’s never once judged me for it. She knows my baggage and my history, and she still chooses me every day. That’s the definition of true friendship.
14. We’re experts at lazy days
We can spend an entire weekend doing nothing: Netflix, snacks, mismatched pyjamas, messy buns, and zero productivity — and it’s still one of the best weekends of the month.
15. She’s my human diary
I can tell her anything. She’s heard it all, from the good to the bad, the embarrassing to the completely ridiculous, and she’s still here. That’s rare, and I know how lucky I am to have it.
16. We share snacks without blinking
She knows what foods are “hands-off” and which ones we can demolish together. That level of snack telepathy is truly remarkable. Priceless.
17. She matches my weirdness perfectly
Is it acceptable to engage in random dancing in public? She’s in. Are we singing at the top of our lungs in the car? She’s harmonising. Is she experimenting with dubious TikTok trends? Oh, she’s ready.
18. When we’re over guys, we’re over guys together
We’ve both experienced those “ugh, men are the worst” moments, and nothing soothes us more quickly than spending a night in together, watching bad romantic comedies, enjoying ice cream, and laughing heartily at our own poor choices.
19. She knows my “cry song”
She knows which song makes me sob uncontrollably, which one makes me laugh so hard I snort, and which one makes me dance like no one’s watching. She knows my soundtrack.
20. We fight — but we never break
We’ve had screaming matches. We’ve expressed our resolve to end the relationship. We’ve sworn we’re not speaking ever again — and by the next morning, we’re sending each other memes. That’s the difference between a best friend and a regular friend: nothing is big enough to break us.
21. She knows mornings are not my thing
She never texts me before 10 a.m. unless it’s a crisis. That’s not just friendship — that’s respect.
22. She handles my moods like a pro
Hangry? She feeds me. Sad? She hugs me. Hyper? She matches my energy. Tired? She lets me nap. She’s basically a mood whisperer.
23. Time and distance mean nothing
We can go weeks, even months, without seeing each other — but when we reunite, it’s like no time has passed. That’s real love.
24. She’s always ready for adventure
Are you planning a last-minute road trip? Are you planning a midnight ice cream run? Random festival? She’s in, no questions asked.
25. She knows when I need space — or when I need her to show up
At times, I require solitude, while at other moments, I appreciate her unexpected visits with snacks and affection. She understands the distinction, and that is truly significant. She knows the difference, and that’s everything.
26. She’s the best gift life ever gave me
Forget material best friend gifts — she’s the gift. She’s the person who makes everything funnier, brighter, easier, and more beautiful. No friendship quote or cheesy Pinterest post can sum up how much she means to me.
What are your final thoughts, Diary?
If you’re lucky enough to have a best friend like this — hold on to her with both hands. Tell her you love her. Send her the funny best friend quotes, buy her the silly best friend gifts, and plan the random girls’ night — because friends like this? They’re rare.
I don’t know what I did to deserve mine, but I’m grateful every single day.
