If you grew up with Lizzie McGuire, chances are Hilary Duff still holds a cosy place in your heart. She has been the big sister of an entire generation, the soundtrack to our teenhood, and the woman who somehow makes adulthood look both chaotic and charming at the same time.

But now that she is stepping confidently into her mature era, single, self-assured, strong, and refreshingly honest about life, love, motherhood, friendships, and identity, I sat down with Hilary to talk about what she has been up to. Warning: Hilary has become more grounded, radiant, and funnier than ever before.

Before we dive in, if you love celeb nostalgia you might enjoy reading my piece on the cast of Shameless today through my Shameless cast catch up guide and for TV throwbacks, my One Tree Hill behind the scenes secrets is perfect too.

Now let’s get into Hilary.

Hilary Duff: Grown Up, Glowing and Thriving

The first thing you notice about Hilary is how calm she is. Her calmness is not a performance. Her calmness is not akin to that of a celebrity. She exudes a normal human calmness. When she sits down, she laughs at herself before I even ask anything.

“It feels so weird doing interviews now that my kids are older. They Listen to everything. I have to think oh wait, that tiny audience at home will definitely quote me later.”

She says it with a grin that tells me she absolutely loves the chaos of motherhood and yet she has rediscovered an identity outside of it. Hilary Duff is not reinventing herself. She is remembering herself.

Where She Has Been and What She Has Been Doing

Reclaiming Her Space

When I ask what she has been up to recently, she dives straight into the emotional stuff with no hesitation.

“Honestly? Learning to breathe in my own skin again. You get older. Your life shifts. Your relationships change. You learn who you are at thirty something in a way you never knew at twenty.”

She talks about stepping into her mature solo era with a mixture of humour and honesty.

“People think being single in your thirties is tragic. No. I finally get to finish a coffee without reheating it seven times.”

She says she has also been prioritising health, balance, and therapy, creating routines that support her rather than drain her.

If you are in your own era of rebuilding, my article on Mirror therapy and body connection might resonate with you too.

Working on Herself and Her Career

Whether she is acting, writing, producing, or recording, Hilary has always moved easily between creative worlds. This year she has been leaning into projects that feel meaningful rather than simply busy.

“I am not chasing every role. I am choosing the ones that let me show a different side. I want grown up characters. Women who are messy and funny and trying their best. Women like me.”

She hints that she has a few new projects coming up but will not spill the exact details. This is a classic Hilary tease.

Her Thoughts on Fame Today

We shift into a conversation about social media, celebrity culture, and what it means to grow up in the public eye.

“I feel protective of my younger self. She worked hard. She was confused. She got criticised for things that were just normal growing pains.”

When she discusses today’s social media culture, she rolls her eyes lovingly.

“If I was fifteen today and had TikTok I would never sleep. I would be lip-syncing in the bathroom twenty four seven. The pressure now is wild.”

She stresses the importance of boundaries, digital breaks, and keeping certain parts of her life sacred.

If digital burnout is your thing, you will love my piece on Why going off grid is good for your mind.

The Hilary Duff Love Life Update

Single Does Not Mean Stagnant

Fans are always curious about Hilary’s love life. She knows it. I know it. She laughs before I even finish the question.

“Yes, I am single. No, I am not crying into a tub of ice cream. I am actually enjoying it. Honestly, it feels good.”

She describes this chapter as freeing.

“When you grow up, love becomes less about finding someone to complete you and more about finding someone who fits into the life you built.”

She adds that dating in your thirties is surreal.

“Everyone has baggage and a therapist. It is great.”

Then she grins again.

“And before you ask, no, I am not on any apps.”


Motherhood, Music, Acting and Balance

The Chaos She Loves Most

We talk about her kids, her home life, and how she manages the madness.

“Every day is a circus. However, it is a unique experience for her. And I love it.”

She explains that she is learning to put her needs on the list again.

“Self-care stops being bubble baths and becomes actual boundaries.”

She exudes a nostalgic glow, reminiscent of the early 2000s, when discussing music.

“Never say never to new music. That part of me is still alive.”

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What Hilary Wants You To Know Now

In the final part of our chat, Hilary becomes soft and reflective.

“You are allowed to outgrow people. You are allowed to evolve. And you are allowed to take your time doing it.”

Given everything she has What she has been through, both publicly and privately, makes her message feel powerful.

“Your thirties are just your twenties with more wisdom and better skincare.”

She leaves me with one last line that sums her up perfectly.

“I am not reinventing myself. I am just becoming more of who I already was.”


Final Thoughts

Hilary Duff is not a childhood star. She is not a nostalgia meme. She is not frozen in the Lizzie McGuire days. She is a mature, grounded, single, creative, funny, compassionate grown woman who is figuring it out just like the rest of us.

And honestly, she makes adulthooI would look somewhat brighter.

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